Maybe it’s your tech interview, or just talking to someone — you freeze.
You have the answer in your mind, but… you just can’t speak it out. You aren’t confident. Your voice shakes, your thoughts get jammed, and all you manage to say is a nervous “umm…”
Come on, let’s fix it together. I have one idea — and it’s simple.
Take your phone, open Instagram, create a new private account — nobody’s going to see it except you.
Now, every night before sleeping, take your phone, record a 1-2 minute video where you just talk about your day. That’s it.
But while doing this, focus on these 3 things:
1. Work on your Vocabulary
Start learning which word needs to be used when. That’s where half the confidence comes from.
For example:
“The meeting was good” vs. “The meeting was productive.”
Same meaning, right? But the second one feels clearer, more confident — like you know what you’re saying. That’s the power of using the right word at the right time.
Try learning a few new words or idioms daily and use them in your videos.
“They are different.”
“You’re comparing apples and oranges.”
Learn 1–2 new words or idioms every day. Use them in your Insta videos. Slowly, your vocabulary becomes your superpower.
2. Listen. Yes, just Listen.
Wonder why?
Because communication isn’t about just talking.
You’re not giving a speech — you’re having a conversation. And in any real conversation, listening makes you 10x better at replying calmly and smartly.
Also bro, don’t just nod if you didn’t get them 😅 — ask them to pardon or repeat.
So next time you’re in a convo or watching a podcast, actually listen to how people frame their replies. Learn the rhythm. Understand the tone.
3. Speak Out
The first thing — just speak out. Never hesitate to be frank or honest. You don’t need to speak on a stage or in front of a crowd to practice this. Just speak in your own space, your own way. Be imperfect, but be perfectly you.
Because honestly, the only way to improve communication skills is to communicate. Speak. Talk. Express. It’s as simple and as powerful as that.
Final Thoughts
The whole point of the Instagram trick is to boost your English, build your vocabulary, and improve how you form sentences naturally.
As you keep doing this, your confidence will start to show naturally, your face will light up, and when you speak clearly, people around you will feel that positive vibes.
Good communication is a two-way street that creates a powerful loop: you speak better, others respond better, and the whole conversation flows smoothly.
To boost this confidence even more, check out free channels like “Charisma on Command” on YouTube.
So yeah, you’ve got this!
